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Top 3 Essential Skills Every Child Should Learn

As parents, we constantly think about the essential skills our children need to navigate the complexities of life. While academic knowledge is crucial, there are certain life skills that often take a backseat but are equally, if not more, important. In this blog post, we will discuss three vital skills: holding boundaries, problem-solving, and the art of self-love. These skills will not only help your children grow into confident and capable adults but will also ensure they lead fulfilling and balanced lives.

1. Holding Boundaries

Why It Matters: Holding boundaries is a fundamental skill that helps children understand their limits and respect the limits of others. It teaches them to say no when necessary, to prioritize their well-being, and to foster healthy relationships.

How to Teach It:

  • Model Boundaries: Demonstrate clear boundaries in your own life. Show your children that it’s okay to decline invitations, to take time for yourself, and to set limits on your time and energy.
  • Communicate Clearly: Teach your children to articulate their needs and limits clearly and respectfully. Role-play scenarios where they might need to enforce a boundary, such as saying no to peer pressure.
  • Respect Their Boundaries: When your child sets a boundary, respect it. This could be as simple as knocking before entering their room or honoring their need for alone time.

2. Problem-Solving Skills

Why It Matters: Problem-solving skills are crucial for navigating life’s challenges. Children who can analyze situations, think critically, and come up with solutions are better equipped to handle difficulties and to succeed in various aspects of life.

How to Teach It:

  • Encourage Critical Thinking: Ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. Encourage your children to think about different outcomes and consequences of their actions.
  • Let Them Struggle: It’s tempting to solve problems for your children, but allowing them to struggle and find solutions fosters independence and resilience.
  • Use Real-Life Scenarios: Present everyday problems and encourage your children to come up with solutions. For example, if a toy is broken, ask how they might fix it or what alternatives they can think of.

3. The Art of Self-Love

Why It Matters: Self-love is the foundation of a healthy self-esteem and mental well-being. Teaching children to love and accept themselves fosters a positive self-image and helps them to navigate life with confidence and resilience.

How to Teach It:

  • Positive Affirmations: Encourage your children to practice positive self-talk. Help them create affirmations that they can repeat daily, such as “I am capable,” “I am worthy,” and “I am loved.”
  • Self-Care Routines: Teach your children the importance of self-care. This can include activities they enjoy, taking care of their physical health, and setting aside time for relaxation and hobbies.
  • Celebrate Their Uniqueness: Emphasize that everyone is unique and that differences are to be celebrated. Encourage your children to embrace their individual qualities and talents.

By focusing on these three essential skills—holding boundaries, problem-solving, and the art of self-love—you can help your children build a solid foundation for their future. These skills will enable them to face life’s challenges with confidence, maintain healthy relationships, and nurture their well-being. As you nurture these abilities in your children, you are not only preparing them for the practical aspects of life but also empowering them to lead happy, fulfilling lives.

What are the top skills you would like your children to learn? Share your thoughts in the comments below! And stay tuned for our next blog, where we will delve into more tips and strategies for raising well-rounded and resilient children.

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Fajeto – A Gujarati Mango Kadhi: Making the Most of Summer Mangoes

Indulge in the tangy and sweet flavors of Fajeto Mango Kadhi, a traditional Gujarati dish that combines the richness of ripe mangoes with the spiciness of Indian spices. Perfect for summer, this kadhi is a delightful way to use leftover mango pulp. I love how this Fajeto Kadhi perfectly balances sweet, sour, and spicy flavors. It’s versatile enough to be served as a refreshing welcome drink at summer parties, making it both a unique and delightful treat for your guests. But wait, if you have friends who are vegan, we have the perfect solution at the end of the recipe to make this kadhi vegan.

Ingredients:

Leftover mango skins and seeds
1 cup water
1/2 cup dahi (yogurt)
2 tablespoons besan (gram flour)
1/4 cup aamras (mango pulp)
Salt to taste
2 teaspoons oil
1 teaspoon rai (mustard seeds)
1 teaspoon jeera (cumin seeds)
1/2 teaspoon methi dana (fenugreek seeds)
A pinch of hing (asafoetida)
1/2 teaspoon haldi (turmeric powder)
A few curry leaves

Method:

Take the leftover mango skins and seeds, and place them in 1 cup of water. Squeeze out all the mango pulp and strain the water to get the mango essence.

In a bowl, combine the strained mango water with 1/2 cup dahi. Add 2 tablespoons of besan, and salt to taste.

Mix well until you have a smooth mixture. Add an additional 1/2 cup of water if required to achieve the desired consistency.

Heat 2 teaspoons of oil in a pan. Add 1 teaspoon of rai, 1 teaspoon of jeera, and 1/2 teaspoon of methi dana, add a pinch of hing and curry leaves.

Once the seeds start to splutter, add 1/2 teaspoon of haldi.


Pour the mango and besan mixture into the pan with the tadka. Keep stirring continuously to avoid lumps.

Cook the mixture until it comes to a couple of boils, ensuring it’s well-cooked and smooth.

Your Fajeto Mango Kadhi is now ready to be enjoyed. Serve it hot with steamed rice or as a side dish with your favorite Indian meal.

Fajeto, the delightful Gujarati Mango Kadhi, is a perfect way to celebrate the summer season. The tangy, sweet, and spicy flavors come together in a harmonious blend that not only tantalizes your taste buds but also brings a touch of traditional Gujarati cuisine to your table. It’s a versatile dish that can be enjoyed with steamed rice or as a refreshing soup on a hot day.

Can We Make This Recipe Vegan?

Absolutely! While this recipe traditionally includes dairy yogurt, you can easily substitute with cashew yogurt to make it vegan version. Use cashew yogurt in place of regular yogurt to achieve the perfect level of sourness for the kadhi. And vegan fajeto (Gujrati kadhi) is ready.

We hope you try this Fajeto recipe and experience the magic of mangoes in a whole new way. If you do, please share your feedback in the comments below or tag us in your social media accounts with hashtag #MasalaMonkRecipe. We would love to hear how it turned out for you! And if you have your own variations or tips for making Fajeto, don’t hesitate to share them with our community. Also enjoy the flavors of summer with these mango recipes: Chia Seed Mango Pudding and Mango Pudding .

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Apple Pancakes for Baby-led Weaning or Toddlers-Dairy free Gluten free 

Apple pancakes are great finger foods for baby lead weaning or toddlers. Pancakes are the simple snack or breakfast option that I often whip for son. I experiment quite a lot with different wholegrain flours and fruits to make nutritious pancakes for my child. 

The good part about these apple pancakes which makes it great for babies and toddlers is that, it doesn’t contain any leavening agents. 

These pancakes are very simple to make. You can literally whip these in 15 minutes with minimal ingredients. All you need is rolled oats, apple and an egg. These pancakes do not require any milk. Moisture from apple and egg will be enough to get the right batter consistency.

If you don’t have rolled oats, you can use wholewheat flour too or any other flour of your choice. I can bet your toddler won’t refuse this for breakfast 

Recipe: makes 4 pancakes

Ingredients 

  1. Large Apple: 1 
  2. Large Egg: 1
  3. Rolled Oats flour: 5 tbsps (simply grind rolled oats in a grinder)
  4. Rolled Oats: 2 tbsps 
  5. Butter/Oil for cooking
  6. Cinnamon: 1/4th tsp
  7. Vanilla extract: 1/4th tsp

Instructions

  • Peel the apple and grate it in a bowl. 
  • Crack an egg straight in a bowl or you can use a separate bowl and lightly whisk it first and then add to apple. Mix it well.
  • Tip in cinnamon and pure vanilla extract. Mix well. 
  • Now add rolled oats flour and 2 tbsps rolled oats. This is optional. I like to keep a bite and texture of rolled oats in pancakes. You can grind it if you want. Mix till everything incorporates. Batter consistency is thick.
  • Heat a nonstick or cast iron pan to a medium heat. Brush it with some butter or oil. Pour 1 scoop or roughly 1/4th cup batter.
  • Cook till top sets and edges start to leave the pan. Gently flip and cook the other side till golden brown. Cook the remaining batter similarly.

How to serve pancakes?

  • Babies 6-9 months old: cut pancakes vertically in the size of your index finger. It is easier for babies to grasp.
  • Babies 9months+: You can cut the pancake to small bite size pieces.
  • Toddlers: Serve the same way as you would serve an adult. You can also smear pancakes with some nut butter fold them and make a little pancake sandwich.

Variations

  1. You can swap apple with any other fruit of your choice like peach, strawberry or mango.
  2. You can also experiment with different flours- wholewheat flour or different millet flour.
  3. You can also substitute fruit with a vegetable like carrot or zucchini.
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Barnyard Millet and Foxnuts Savoury Pancakes- Protein Rich Gluten Free

I try to have atleast 2 gluten free meals in a day. I don’t have any gluten allergy but I think it keeps my system in check. There are exceptional days when all my meals have gluten but mostly I prefer breakfast and dinner to be gluten free. 

Millet, an ancient grain has gained quite a well deserved popularity in recent times. Traditional millets have found their way back into households quickly winning hearts. It’s naturally gluten free and offers tremendous health benefits. There are countless reasons why you should have 1 meal in a day that contains millets. 

There are several types of millets you can choose from like foxtail millets, sorghum millet, pearl millet or finger millet. But today we will use Barnyard Millet. In addition to millets, these pancakes also include foxtnuts (makhana), flattened rice (poha) and buttermilk which is a great source of protein.

Benefits of Barnyard Millets 

  • Barnyard millet or Sanwa rice as it is popularly known has high levels of protein, calcium, iron, minerals, and vitamin B complex.
  • It is also low in carbohydrates making it a boon for those with type II diabetes and cardiovascular diseases.
  • It contains high amounts of iron- richest amongst all millets and cereal grains.
  • It is low in calories and a good source of highly digestible protein

Benefits of Foxnuts/Makhanas 

Makhanas were previously so under-appreciated. They have become more popular in recent years as people have become more health conscious. 

  • Foxnuts are a fabulous source of protein, magnesium and potassium. Just 100 grams of foxnuts can give your 9 grams of quality, easy to digest natural protein.
  • They have high calcium content.
  • Studies have shown that foxnuts aid in management of blood sugar levels.
  • Fox nuts are high in astringent properties and can help prevent kidney problems.

I tried these pancakes for the first time today and surprisingly they came out so nice and flavourful. Even my 10 year old son loved it and ate 4 of these for breakfast. They are crisp on the outside and soft on the inside. I paired it with my Tangy Spicy Peanut Chutney for more flavour and to add more protein in my diet.

For more savoury pancake recipes you can check out my Semolina Pancake recipe or this Iron Rich Pancake recipe.

Main Ingredients list: (check the full list below)

  1. Barnyard millet: It tastes like broken rice and is also a fabulous substitute for rice. They are also ideal for summers as this millet has cooling properties. In case you can’t find barnyard millet flour, you can substitute it with other millets like pearl millet or sorghum flour.
  2. Flattened Rice/Poha: It is a delightful and nutritious breakfast option with numerous health benefits. It is also an exceptional vegetarian source of Iron. If you can’t find poha, you can use rice flour. 
  3. Foxtail Nuts/Makhana: Makhanas add a great nuttiness and chewy texture to these pancakes. 
  4. Buttermilk: It is a great source of protein. In addition to that, it easy to digest and also adds a natural tangy flavour which tastes delicious. I used homemade buttermilk which was freshly made while making cultured ghee at home. You can check out the recipe here- Homemade Ayurvedic Cultured Ghee. If you can’t find buttermilk, use yogurt or homemade curd.

Recipe: makes 12 pancakes

Ingredients

  1. Barnyard Millet flour: 1 cup
  2. Flattened Rice/ Poha: 1/2 cup
  3. Foxnuts/Makhana: 3/4th cup
  4. Buttermilk: 2 cups
  5. Water: 1/2 cup or as required 
  6. Ginger: 1” long
  7. Green Chilli: 1
  8. Salt to taste
  9. Baking soda: 1/2 tsp
  10. Chopped Vegetables- Onion, Capsicum, Tomato: 2 cups
  11. Chat masala: a pinch (optional)
  12. Curry Leaves: Handful
  13. Oil/Ghee for cooking

Instructions 

  • In a large bowl, add foxnuts, barnyard millet flour and poha. Now add buttermilk and mix well. 
  • Cover and let it rest for 20 minutes. The foxnuts and poha will soften and absorb the buttermilk. At this point it will have a thick consistency. 
  • Now add everything to the blender. Add salt, ginger and green chilli. Then add water and blend to a smooth consistency batter. Add more water if required but add little at a time. Do not make a runny thin batter.
  • Empty the batter in a bowl and add baking soda. Mix gently.
  • Add chopped vegetables and curry leaves in about bowl. Sprinkle some salt and chat masala if you like and mix well. Keep aside.
  • Heat a non-stick pan or cast iron pan. Bring it to medium heat. Spread one ladle full of pancake batter on the pan. Add oil/ghee around the edges.
  • Now add some vegetables on top and press the vegetables gently. Cook on medium flame for 3 minutes or till the edges brown. Carefully flip and cook the other side for another 2-3 minutes or till it becomes nice and golden brown.
  • Cook the remaining pancakes in the similar way. Serve hot with chutney of your choice.

Notes:

  1. Always remember not to add Eno as a leavening agent. It’s an antacid and it’s bad for health. Baking soda will do the similar job and is not harmful when taken in moderation.
  2. Cook these pancakes on medium heat patiently. Do not increase the flame or the pancakes will not cook evenly and might remain raw from the middle. 
  3. You can store the remaining batter in the refrigerator and consume within 2 days.
  4. You can use vegetables of your choice like grated carrots, baby spinach, beetroot etc.
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Is Homemade Butter really Worth the Effort?

We all know what butter is. It is a dairy product that is made from the fat and protein components of churned cream. In this world of modern dietary greed that teaches deprivation is the way to health and beauty, butter is the most feared food- often frowned upon. Butter remains amongst the most misunderstood food.

Butter is called Makkhan in Hindi, that has always been a quintessential part of the Indian culinary culture. As a Punjabi household, our childhood had been surrounded by makkhan (white butter) and ghee, whether on paranthas, rotis or in vegetables. We always had homemade butter in the fridge. It was prepared in a ‘matki’ or a large vessel/ pot in the olden days. The cream was collected over a few days and transferred to a matki specially meant for this purpose. It was then churned with a ‘madhani’ following a long process that consumed a lot of muscle power. But nowadays, matki is replaced by a regular kitchen bowl and madhani is replaced by a food processor or a hand blender or an electric beater. Although the process remains the same, much energy and time is saved using modern equipment. The end product collected after the churning is called white butter.

In Hindu tradition, white butter or makkhan is offered to Lord Krishna during Janmashtami. As a food for gods, I wonder how such ancient wisdom and food traditions are lost in this new fast pace world where everyone is chasing newly found super-foods and conveniently forgetting their roots- the very foundation of our health.

According to celebrity nutritionist Rujuta Diwekar, “The churning of butter itself makes the makkhan special in terms of molecular gastronomy, not just in terms of its unique, ‘melt in an instant’ texture, but it also nutritionally equips it with many special properties.For starters, it retains the potency of the fat-soluble vitamins A, D, K and E, therefore making it a powerful anti-oxidant. Then there is the Wulzen factor, a hormone-like substance only found in freshly churned butter that has the capacity to prevent joint stiffness and ensures that your bones store more calcium.”

Difference between White Butter and Yellow Butter

White butter is one of the original forms of butter, which was made in almost every Indian household earlier while yellow butter is commercially produced in a factory. White butter typically contains fewer milk solids which makes it a healthier option for individuals who have lactose intolerance or sensitivity. As white butter contains less lactose, it is may be easier to digest.

  1. Yellow Butter is processed and contains high amounts of saturated and trans-fat which makes it high in calories as well. White Butter, also known as Makkhan, is a natural, un-processed version of butter and contains healthy fats. Thanks to the presence of lecithin in white butter which aids in dismantling unhealthy fats and kick-starts a more agile metabolism.
  2. The molecular makeup of white butter allows it to effectively assimilate fats. This property extends a soothing touch to joints, offering respite to individuals grappling with joint discomfort. It’s a natural elixir for bolstering joint health and mobility.
  3. White butter houses arachidonic acid, a fatty acid pivotal in brain development. In addition, it also contains omega 3 and omega 6. It is exceptionally good for children as it supports their overall brain growth.
  4. Want that glowing skin? Include Makkhan in your diet. It is an amazing source of Vitamin E, that safeguards skin health, potentially leading to a reduction in skin-related issues.
  5. Yellow butter is yellow because of the high fat content, and it’s processed, therefore it’s heavy in calories. Salt and preservatives are added to make it last longer and have a prolonged shelf life. Yellow butter also contains colouring agents.

How to make White Butter at home?

  1. Take some of top creamy layer of milk or malai in a bowl.
  2. Churn it with a whisker or sturdy spoon for a minute or two. 
  3. Now add ice cubes and a little bit of cold water and churn again till butter has separated from water and comes together. 
  4. Separate the butter from the liquid. Gently squeeze the makkhan between your hands. 
  5. Rinse butter with fresh water to get rid of any milk residue. 
  6. Let the butter set in refrigerator for 10-15 minutes and it is ready to be used.

Notes: 

  1. I normally make small quantity of butter so I prefer manual churning. However, if you plan to make a big batch you can totally use food processor or an electric beater. Just add some cold water to the blender and blend it on pulse mode.
  2. It is important to wash away all the milk remains from the butter. If a substantial amount of buttermilk remains, it will sour within a week, otherwise homemade butter can keep for upto 2 weeks in the fridge.
  3. You can also make Cultured Probiotic Butter at home which has added benefits of probiotics and is much easier to digest. You can check out the full procedure here- Ayurvedic Cultured Ghee. 

Takeway

In a nutshell, white butter is way better than yellow commercial butter. Is it worth the effort? Absolutely Yeah!! I always feed my child white butter and he barely eats yellow butter. It’s just so easy to whip in small batches. Literally takes you 5 minutes. Although, always remember to have it in moderation. Too much of everything is bad. Any excess of oil or fats will lead to heart or cholesterol problems. And never be scared or feel guilty about food. Do not indulge in fearful eating. Enjoy your luscious aloo ka paratha with a dollop of freshly made white butter, but moderately. Eat smart and exercise and aim at a healthy lifestyle.