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Want Your Child to Eat Well? Here Are a Few Tips to Make Mealtimes Enjoyable

As parents, we often find ourselves worrying about our children’s eating habits. We want to ensure they receive the right nutrients and grow up healthy and strong. However, in our quest to feed them well, we sometimes end up controlling their food intake too much. This approach can backfire, leading to mealtime battles and stress for both parent and child. Instead, here are some tips to help your child eat well and make mealtimes enjoyable:

Stop Controlling Their Food Intake

Children have an innate sense of how much food they need. Trust them to listen to their bodies and decide when they are full. Forcing them to eat more than they want can lead to a negative relationship with food. Allow them to stop eating when they signal they have had enough.

Let Them Connect with Their Hunger

Encourage your child to recognize and respond to their hunger cues. This helps them understand their body’s needs and develop healthy eating habits. Instead of insisting they eat at specific times or finish their plate, let them eat when they are genuinely hungry.

Trust Your Baby

Trust is key when it comes to feeding your child. Believe that your child knows how much food they need. This trust fosters a positive eating environment where your child feels comfortable making their own choices about food. It’s important to support their autonomy and help them build a healthy relationship with food.

Make Mealtime Pleasurable

Eating should be a fun and enjoyable experience, not a chore or punishment. Sit with your child and share meals together. If you’re not hungry, simply keep them company and engage in pleasant conversation or playful activities. Creating a positive atmosphere around meals can make a significant difference in how your child perceives food.

Avoid Fussing About Food

We often become overly sensitive about whether our child is eating enough. This anxiety can transfer to the child, making mealtime a stressful event. Instead, relax and trust that your child will eat what they need. Avoid turning mealtime into a power struggle.

Let Food Be a Joy

Focus on making food enjoyable rather than something that must be controlled or enforced. Introduce a variety of foods and let your child explore different tastes and textures. Encourage them to try new things, but don’t pressure them. Celebrate the act of eating as a joyful, shared experience.

Eat Together

One of the best ways to encourage healthy eating habits is by eating together as a family. This not only provides a model for your child but also makes mealtime a bonding experience. Children are more likely to try new foods and eat well when they see their parents doing the same.

By following these tips, you can create a positive and stress-free environment around food, helping your child develop a healthy relationship with eating.

We hope these tips help you make mealtimes more enjoyable and stress-free for you and your child. Do you have any other topics you’d like us to cover? We’d love to hear your suggestions and feedback.

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Top 3 Essential Skills Every Child Should Learn

As parents, we constantly think about the essential skills our children need to navigate the complexities of life. While academic knowledge is crucial, there are certain life skills that often take a backseat but are equally, if not more, important. In this blog post, we will discuss three vital skills: holding boundaries, problem-solving, and the art of self-love. These skills will not only help your children grow into confident and capable adults but will also ensure they lead fulfilling and balanced lives.

1. Holding Boundaries

Why It Matters: Holding boundaries is a fundamental skill that helps children understand their limits and respect the limits of others. It teaches them to say no when necessary, to prioritize their well-being, and to foster healthy relationships.

How to Teach It:

  • Model Boundaries: Demonstrate clear boundaries in your own life. Show your children that it’s okay to decline invitations, to take time for yourself, and to set limits on your time and energy.
  • Communicate Clearly: Teach your children to articulate their needs and limits clearly and respectfully. Role-play scenarios where they might need to enforce a boundary, such as saying no to peer pressure.
  • Respect Their Boundaries: When your child sets a boundary, respect it. This could be as simple as knocking before entering their room or honoring their need for alone time.

2. Problem-Solving Skills

Why It Matters: Problem-solving skills are crucial for navigating life’s challenges. Children who can analyze situations, think critically, and come up with solutions are better equipped to handle difficulties and to succeed in various aspects of life.

How to Teach It:

  • Encourage Critical Thinking: Ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. Encourage your children to think about different outcomes and consequences of their actions.
  • Let Them Struggle: It’s tempting to solve problems for your children, but allowing them to struggle and find solutions fosters independence and resilience.
  • Use Real-Life Scenarios: Present everyday problems and encourage your children to come up with solutions. For example, if a toy is broken, ask how they might fix it or what alternatives they can think of.

3. The Art of Self-Love

Why It Matters: Self-love is the foundation of a healthy self-esteem and mental well-being. Teaching children to love and accept themselves fosters a positive self-image and helps them to navigate life with confidence and resilience.

How to Teach It:

  • Positive Affirmations: Encourage your children to practice positive self-talk. Help them create affirmations that they can repeat daily, such as “I am capable,” “I am worthy,” and “I am loved.”
  • Self-Care Routines: Teach your children the importance of self-care. This can include activities they enjoy, taking care of their physical health, and setting aside time for relaxation and hobbies.
  • Celebrate Their Uniqueness: Emphasize that everyone is unique and that differences are to be celebrated. Encourage your children to embrace their individual qualities and talents.

By focusing on these three essential skills—holding boundaries, problem-solving, and the art of self-love—you can help your children build a solid foundation for their future. These skills will enable them to face life’s challenges with confidence, maintain healthy relationships, and nurture their well-being. As you nurture these abilities in your children, you are not only preparing them for the practical aspects of life but also empowering them to lead happy, fulfilling lives.

What are the top skills you would like your children to learn? Share your thoughts in the comments below! And stay tuned for our next blog, where we will delve into more tips and strategies for raising well-rounded and resilient children.

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Apple Pancakes for Baby-led Weaning or Toddlers-Dairy free Gluten free 

Apple pancakes are great finger foods for baby lead weaning or toddlers. Pancakes are the simple snack or breakfast option that I often whip for son. I experiment quite a lot with different wholegrain flours and fruits to make nutritious pancakes for my child. 

The good part about these apple pancakes which makes it great for babies and toddlers is that, it doesn’t contain any leavening agents. 

These pancakes are very simple to make. You can literally whip these in 15 minutes with minimal ingredients. All you need is rolled oats, apple and an egg. These pancakes do not require any milk. Moisture from apple and egg will be enough to get the right batter consistency.

If you don’t have rolled oats, you can use wholewheat flour too or any other flour of your choice. I can bet your toddler won’t refuse this for breakfast 

Recipe: makes 4 pancakes

Ingredients 

  1. Large Apple: 1 
  2. Large Egg: 1
  3. Rolled Oats flour: 5 tbsps (simply grind rolled oats in a grinder)
  4. Rolled Oats: 2 tbsps 
  5. Butter/Oil for cooking
  6. Cinnamon: 1/4th tsp
  7. Vanilla extract: 1/4th tsp

Instructions

  • Peel the apple and grate it in a bowl. 
  • Crack an egg straight in a bowl or you can use a separate bowl and lightly whisk it first and then add to apple. Mix it well.
  • Tip in cinnamon and pure vanilla extract. Mix well. 
  • Now add rolled oats flour and 2 tbsps rolled oats. This is optional. I like to keep a bite and texture of rolled oats in pancakes. You can grind it if you want. Mix till everything incorporates. Batter consistency is thick.
  • Heat a nonstick or cast iron pan to a medium heat. Brush it with some butter or oil. Pour 1 scoop or roughly 1/4th cup batter.
  • Cook till top sets and edges start to leave the pan. Gently flip and cook the other side till golden brown. Cook the remaining batter similarly.

How to serve pancakes?

  • Babies 6-9 months old: cut pancakes vertically in the size of your index finger. It is easier for babies to grasp.
  • Babies 9months+: You can cut the pancake to small bite size pieces.
  • Toddlers: Serve the same way as you would serve an adult. You can also smear pancakes with some nut butter fold them and make a little pancake sandwich.

Variations

  1. You can swap apple with any other fruit of your choice like peach, strawberry or mango.
  2. You can also experiment with different flours- wholewheat flour or different millet flour.
  3. You can also substitute fruit with a vegetable like carrot or zucchini.